Embrace the unknown and find friends like you
Local friendly society, Albert Oddfellows says when it comes to meeting new people it’s important to embrace the unknown.
To inspire others to give a new community group a go, its members have stepped forward to share that, while it’s normal to feel anxious at first, pushing past any nerves increases the chance of finding a place where you can relax and be yourself.
Geraldine, 68 from Hatfield is a member of the Oddfellows’ Albert Branch and has experienced this firsthand. For over 2 years, Gerry has been part of the local group that meets regularly to socialise, try new activities, and build supportive friendships.
“Trying a new club or group for the first time is nerve-wracking, no question about it,” said Gerry. “But that’s because it’s a new experience, not because you can’t do it. The thing is, sometimes you need to step outside your comfort zone to find places and people where you can feel totally at ease. It’s about finding a community where you can relax, laugh, and really feel comfortable.”
“But it’s the first step that can be the hardest. Once you make that leap and see the kind of people you’re surrounded by, it doesn’t feel so scary anymore,” she added.
Gerry’s experience isn’t unique, says Albert Oddfellows, and adds that most newcomers feel this way. With a focus on connection, the group says supportive environments are key to helping people try new things without feeling out of their depth.
The local not-for-profit organises and hosts around five events a month, including regular meetups in Hitchin, Dunstable and Biggleswade including coffee mornings, lunch clubs, and games afternoons. The Branch also organises day trips and guided walks, offering a mix of light-hearted social events and enriching experiences.
Samantha Johnson, who co-ordinates events for Albert Oddfellows and a member herself explains that every gathering is designed with four things in mind.
“Our events offer four things: regularity – so you’ve always got something to look forward to; variety – so you can try new things; reassurance – a friendly, welcoming environment; and affordability – so no one misses out on good company because of cost,” she said.
Newcomers are invited to get in touch and try an event. These include a coffee morning, starting at 10:30am on Wednesday 26th November at 8 Nuns Close. There is also a museum visit followed by tea/coffee, starting at 10:30am on Thursday 4th December at North Herts Museum.
Added Sam: “Whether you're new to the area, looking to meet people, or simply seeking a change in routine, we’ve something for everyone. Our wide range of activities makes it an easy place for people to dip their toes into the world of socialising without feeling overwhelmed.”
The Oddfellows’ Albert Branch is one of 96 across the country which aims to connect local people and foster a sense of belonging within communities by making sure everyone is made welcome.
To find out more about the upcoming activities of Albert Oddfellows, or to request a free information pack, including a diary of local events, call 07984 530287, email [email protected], or visit www.oddfellows.co.uk/activities.